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Not funny, thank you!

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‘Blackie!’ , ‘Negro!’, ‘Homo!’, ‘Ladies!’, ‘Wear bangles if you cannot do such a simple work!’ , ‘Don’t behave like an eunuch!’, ‘That’s enough freedom for a girl!’, ‘Are you gay or what?’ , ‘I am okay with gay but they should not wear such loud clothes!’, and the list goes on where very casually and supposedly in a very funny way people pass their judgements and comments. But, where does it come from? Why do we still not find topics funnier than casual sexism, racism and homophobia to play cool with? A world devoid of funny things things to talk about seems really gloomy but at the cost of what? A simple ‘Homo joke’ can push a person down the dark by lanes of tragedy, can push someone back to closet who for once thought of coming out and living life. The woman who dares is slut shamed and the woman who is afraid is suppressed further, both sides do not sound enticing. When a whole gender is used to depict anything that is weak and feeble, a different style of misogyny and sexism is

The convenience of the past

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If I say that there is a thin line of difference between history and mythology, I would actually sound foolish because as similar might people try to make them look like they are very different, but can coexist without harming or dishonoring each other to most extent. Ideally history is something that has happened in the past and it is not about fictional beings or places but mythology has a religious connotation to it and facts are put forward to show the greatness of some religion or culture that might or might not have happened in the past. History nowadays are meddled with to the extent that school kids in Karnataka are being taught that Savarkar used to sit on the wings of a bulbul bird and fly from Andaman to the mainland and if I am not wrong there had been some incident of Narendra Modi fighting a crocodile as a child only to defeat the crocodile.. Blurring these lines of history, mythology, truth, lies, facts and myths is very dangerous because we will have a generation who wi

Towards a better tomorrow

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Since the time I came to know that an individual can also become parent, a single parent, I have always wanted to become a father. However, as I grew older and realised that I am much more privileged than my parents ever were, I started thinking that I will adopt a child only if I can give a better life to that child when compared to mine. So, I have always liked to believe that the cycle goes exactly like this, a tomorrow better than today and a day after tomorrow better than tomorrow. But, are the privileges granted to us enough to change the world? I would say, ‘No’. But, who is asking us to change the world? Change one life, motivate one person, help one in need and the act will be reciprocated, the act will spread far and wide to make the world a better place. Every time when we are reluctant to help, we are citing examples of other people not doing the same and you doing one good act, noble act, kind act or responsible act cannot really do much. So, in all this confusion and